The Bar is Ankle High

Bring your cocktails, shake your mocktails, and throw back those meds, because we are ready to take the world by chaos with our unique perspectives on life, love, friendships, and our experiences as 30-somethings who weren’t diagnosed with ADHD until recently looking back on our lives with the value of hindsight bolstered with thorough research. Medicated or not, this podcast is for you! Garet & Katie will be here every week discussing things from ADHD and mental health to the history of Tarot and Krampus - so tune in every Thursday to hitch a ride on our chaotic gravy train!

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Episodes

Thursday Jun 20, 2024

We've referenced this topic in almost every single one of our episodes - but we've never actually examined the truth behind the common belief that ADHD is over-diagnosed these days. Katie took over the research this week to answer the question - are there ACTUALLY more people with ADHD these days, or is that just something old farts on social media want us to believe? Katie breaks down the studies that actually objectively measured the incidences of ADHD in children since 1997 and if you're late diagnosed like us, the answer will probably not surprise you. We also take a slight detour into the DONE ADHD president and CEO arrests from last week and what that federal indictment for drug trafficking charges can mean for continuing care for folks who used that app and service. 
If you are struggling to access your medications, please do not attempt to acquire your medication on the black market. You can find resources to safely wean yourself off of your ADHD meds here: https://www.therecoveryvillage.com/adderall-addiction/adderall-taper/
 
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod
Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!!
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Sources:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10551769/
https://time.com/6271049/adhd-diagnoses-rising/
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2024/06/13/telehealth-execs-arrested-100-million-fraud-adhd/74091441007/
https://emergency.cdc.gov/han/2024/han00510.asp?utm_campaign=stat_plus_today&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-_8LKypZ5PD6_juTiKIhxuFi9hs3sG7yaGJEhDNOEzu94iwUWEFYmcoG-qqjlxJqq1-OoRKKK-CJRaoXLk5J4ld8DstsQ&_hsmi=311534881&utm_content=311534881&utm_source=hs_email

E96: It's Poop Again!

Thursday Jun 13, 2024

Thursday Jun 13, 2024

Well, if you're in the United States then you know this year, 2024, is yet another election year. The thing is, even though the presidential election this year guarantees to be a dystopian rematch of the 2020 election and subsequent debauchery including everything from Rudy Guiliani's melting head outside an adult sex toy store and Four Seasons Total Landscaping to another breach of the Capitol Buildings, there's also EVERY SINGLE House of Representatives seat up for grabs as well as a good portion of the senate AND of course your local elections. 
That's a shitload of voting so we brought in our favorite Legislative Director, Sarah Spellman, who you might know on Instagram as @senatorspellman, or you might recognize their voice from their appearance on our Pride Month episodes from last year. This year, Sarah is bringing their expertise in elections to us to explain basic civics and how to pick a candidate - and also the best way to connect with your representatives so they know about the issues that really matter to you. So tune into this extra long episode and make sure you're registered to vote! 
You can check your registration status and find information about everyone you're eligible to vote for this year by heading over to www.vote.org (non-partisan!) 
Sources: 
Session Schedules - StateScape State Session Schedules
Schoolhouse Rock - I'm Just a Bill - YouTube
Mapping Attacks on LGBTQ Rights in U.S. State Legislatures in 2024 | American Civil Liberties Union (aclu.org)
 
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod
Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
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E95: Ask Me Tomorrow

Thursday Jun 06, 2024

Thursday Jun 06, 2024

We're back with another episode of ADHD Would You Rather! Katie & Garet discuss various scenarios, such as cleaning out a closet vs. rebuilding a wardrobe, drinking coffee with missing elements vs. having perpetual coffee breath, waking up sweaty vs. waking up freezing cold, and being misunderstood vs. unable to explain oneself. They also touch on topics like sticky lip gloss vs. chapped lips and the band Phish. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with both Katie and Garet sharing their preferences and personal experiences. In this conversation, Garet and Katie discuss various topics, including plastic surgery, jaw reconstruction and it's impact on facial changes as demonstrated by our tweeny hearthrob, Zac Efron. No matter which of these you choose, remember to be kind to yourself, because the bar is ankle high!
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod
Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20
Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA

E94: The True Secrets of NIMH

Thursday May 30, 2024

Thursday May 30, 2024

Remember a few weeks ago when Garet was talking about Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder and mentioned something about the use of dopamine to regulate pain levels? Well, that fun fact stuck in Katie's head in a big way so this week Katie teaches us about the connection between dopamine and pain perception - and can you believe it? It's different for folks who were assigned male at birth than it is for folks assigned female a birth! If ONLY we had seen this in every other study we've ever looked into...wait...oh yeah. We also discuss the effects that chronic pain has on the brain and dopamine production and reception and then discuss that gem of a commencement speech by Harrison Butker - because the bar is ankle high.
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod
Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20
Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA

E93: Knife Knives

Thursday May 23, 2024

Thursday May 23, 2024

Have you ever thought your own home or apartment isn't designed for neurodivergence? Us too, that's why in this week's episode we're talking about what we would put in our ADHD Barbie Dream House from kitchens with no cabinets, kitchens with deep drawers, bathrooms made to fit tall and short people, and other personalized solutions for coping with our ADHD at home. 
 
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod
Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20
Zencastr: https://zen.ai/hbxFmHWJjfjA7r-Jy12hoA

E92: Spectrum Inception

Thursday May 16, 2024

Thursday May 16, 2024

Welcome to yet another topic inspired by Katie's endless scrolling on TikTok before it gets banned - today we're diving headfirst into Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder, a connective tissue disorder that affects joint stability. Although the video Katie sent Garet was discussing hyperextending your joints and how damaging that can be to your body over time, HSD can actually cause problems with your vascular system, intestines (think Crohn's Disease and ulcerative colitis), skin, and - you guessed it - your brain! We discuss Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and the connection between hypermobility and neurodivergence - so make sure you listen to the whole episode because we also discuss what these new and developing studies could mean for AFAB healthcare in the future.
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! We're also on TikTok where Katie posts a whole bunch of episode clips but also fun ADHD tidbits - so go follow us there at @anklehighpod
Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us and share us to your IG stories to make sure all your friends know why you're laughing so much at work!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
Calm Strips: https://calmstrips.com/ Promo Code: LIMBO20
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E91: Breakfast With Tiffanies

Thursday May 09, 2024

Thursday May 09, 2024

Well, it finally happened - after 90 episodes our winning streak was broken and we lost one of our recordings. It doesn't matter why, all that matters is that it was Garet's fault and we've probably fixed the problem! 
In the meantime - this week we are giving you one of our Patreon Bonus Episode Deep Cuts with an episode where we discuss living with someone who has ADHD or being the person that someone else has to live with even though we have ADHD. Katie had just moved in with her boyfriend - the first time in five years that she's lived with a romantic partner. Katie shares the adjustments she and PK have had to make recently and Garet shares the things she's learned over the course of her decade-long (and we'll say successful) marriage. 
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
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E90: A Story About Rocks

Thursday May 02, 2024

Thursday May 02, 2024

Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Gifts...the Five Love Languages that, in 1992, were the subject of Pastor Gary Chapman's book that was used by Christians and non-Christians alike to help their intimate relationships. But are there only five love languages? And how did Chapman come up with this list anyway? This week Katie dives into the Five Love Languages and what they really mean - and then we talk about what the Love Languages of ADHD are. Tune in to find out and make sure  you're following us on Instagram to add in your own love language. 
 
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
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E89: A Multitude of Oddities

Thursday Apr 25, 2024

Thursday Apr 25, 2024

Welcome back to Part 2 of our series on coping with ADHD at work when you're not requesting or using a formal reasonable accommodation. Whether you aren't formally diagnosed or aren't comfortable requesting a formal accommodation, we have work arounds for you to try out. We discuss using quiet fidget items, doodling, paraphrasing and repeating instructions to ensure we understand, and setting and requesting clear deadlines. No matter what you do for work or where you are on your ADHD journey, your struggles are valid and you are still deserving of respect in the workplace. Make sure you're following us on social media and tell us on today's post on IG what workplace hacks you use to manage your own ADHD! 
 
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us!!
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E88: Lightbulb Staring Contest

Thursday Apr 18, 2024

Thursday Apr 18, 2024

This week Garet tells us all about what to do at work if you're NOT comfortable asking for a formal reasonable accommodation from your employer. We discuss things like how we cope with difficulty sitting still in meetings, struggling to keep track of projects and deadlines, dealing with distractions in the office, and managing time and organization. Katie and Garet discuss their experiences with test-taking, time management, and workplace challenges related to ADHD. They share tips for focusing on one task at a time, using background noise to stay engaged, and organizing emails and voicemails, as well as using YouTube tutorials to learn skills and brush up on skills that maybe your boss thinks you're supposed to know but literally only one person on YouTube and Bill Gates know how to do. And no matter what, remember that you are doing a great job and you deserve a little treat for getting through another workday with ADHD. It's HARD!
 
You can check out our brand new merch at bit.ly/anklehighmerch and support us by joining our Patreon for just $5 per month at www.patreon.com/thebarisanklehigh where you'll get access to extended cut ad free audio and video episodes plus bonus episodes, be added to our close friends list on Instagram, and get an on-air shout out and goodies from us in the mail!
Make sure you're following us on Instagram @thebarisanklehigh to join in on the weekly episode title contest for your chance to win a free podcast logo sticker! Finally, the best way to support us is to leave us a 5-star review anywhere you find us!!
The second-best way to support us is to support our ad sponsors:
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